The calendar says December 24 today, but in many ways it doesn’t feel as though Christmas is only a day away. For one thing, our daughters just started a monthlong vacation, summer vacation. For another, it’s 22 degrees outside, 72 Fahrenheit, and it’s getting warmer by the day (the only conversion that I seem to be able to remember without having to look it up is 16 c = 61 f). On Sunday I went to Mass at a nearby Catholic Church, and while the readings were appropriate enough for the fourth Sunday of Advent (including Isaiah 7:10-14), the Christmas carols we cherish this time of year were all missing. And most of all, we’re far removed from family and old friends.
Even as we think about what’s missing this Christmas, though, we’re also grateful to be here in Lima and have this chance to celebrate the holiday, Peruvian style.
On Christmas Eve, for example, we’re invited to the home of a host family that has taken care of several Goshen College students in the past and will welcome another one in January. In keeping with the Noche Buena tradition, we are to arrive at 10 p.m. (when our host told us that we should come at 10, I naively asked whether that was 10 in the morning or 10 at night. Silly me.). We don’t know what is on the menu, but maybe turkey, which in Peru is to Christmas as it is to Thanksgiving in the States. And the next day, on Christmas, we are going to be with a group of other friends, including our invaluable country coordinator, who celebrates a birthday.
Some other gifts, large and small, that I’m grateful for this season:
- Our host families. We had the chance to visit with several families in their homes this month, and each time felt as though we were learning to know people for the first time. We saw many of them at the despedida, or party, that was held at the end of the study term for all students and their families, a social whirl of a night. But in living rooms conversations were much easier to manage, and we learned about children, studies, hobbies, jobs. These are the best of families, each remembering a “son” or “daughter” now back in Goshen.
- Desserts. Our most recent host family visit featured some of the best arroz con leche that I’ve ever had (we really should add coconut to our rice pudding in the States).
- A Christmas tree. The wife of the pastor at the interdenominational church that we attend as we can was kind enough to find a Christmas tree in storage and lend it to us for the season. Most of our ornaments are in Goshen, but we do have some popcorn, stars and lights to dress up the tree.
- Riding on buses. After so many years of having to hop in a car to go anywhere, it’s great to be able to leave the driving to someone else. We can board a bus, usually at a stop near our apartment, and get to most any point in the city. Buses are a great equalizer: a great mass of humanity traveling in the same direction, usually paying 1 sol (35 cents), squeezing into seats built for the young, lerching together as zany drivers take turns cutting each other off.
- People who are kind, no matter the level of our Spanish. In “Mrs. Doubtfire,” which we recently watched for the first time with subtitles, there’s a scene in which Robin Williams, who is about to become Mrs. Doubtfire, calls up his ex-wife, pretending to be a nanny she should not hire. “I am job,” the fake nanny says with a foreign accent. “I am job.” Makes me wonder whether I’ve ever said something like “I am SST. I am SST”
- Skype and wireless. We may be far away, but we’re not out of touch. Thanks to 91.1 the Globe, we can listen to college basketball games as well.
- DVDs of “The Office.” When we need a laugh, we have two seasons to choose from. Favorite lines show up around the apartment, like this exchange between Dwight and Jim, which someone just wrote on the white board: “Where is my desk? Where is my DESK?” “Okay, calm down. You were the one who lost it. Where was the last place you saw it?”
- SST. I’ve come to appreciate even more the importance of this 13-week journey of study and service. “Expect to be transformed,” the college says. And this: “You will also learn to better understand yourself and your place in the world.” SST, or an equivalent, should be a requirement for all presidential candidates and for the rest of us as well. What about expanding SST into the adult education arena, sending retirees or others with a flexible schedule to the same locations that students now go, for three months of study and service?